Are
you very shy when it comes to new surroundings, such as starting a new
class or moving to a new area? Sometimes, it is necessary to overcome
your shyness and speak confidently. By doing this, it can help you not
only to share your ideas properly to others, but also to learn
communicating with others. Here are a few steps to consider when
speaking with confidence.
1. Learn how to have conversations with people.
Your ideas or opinions may not always be accepted by others, but this
is nothing unusual. Open your mouth, express your beliefs! This will
improve your courage.
2. Don’t be afraid and speak loudly.
If you speak in a low voice, not only will others not be able to hear
what you say, but you will also portray a submissive demeanor, which
suggests the opposite of aconfident one.
3. Make eye contact when you speak. For one thing, it is polite for others. Also, eye contact will help others to listen to your thinking carefully.
4. Praise yourself everyday!
This will promote your own confidence, which is important when you
speak. With more confidence, people will take your thinking more
seriously.
Tips
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Don’t be nervous when you make mistakes. Human error is far from being a
new concept — nobody is perfect! It is normal for everyone to make
mistakes. Just calm down and keep speaking bravely.
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Try and try again! This may be difficult for a shy person at first, but
you need to force yourself to speak, and not seclude your thoughts. If
you have some ideas, then try to speak out! Don’t just keep them in your
head.
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If you have self confidence issues, try to think that you are the only
one who has sound knowledge about the topic. Then go ahead and impart
your knowledge to the audience in an effective way.
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Remember that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
Don’t portray an exaggerated amount of confidence, or you will come off
as arrogant, believing that your ideas are better than the ideas of
everyone else.
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